Thursday, January 10, 2013

Fair is a place where they judge pigs.


This is my first blog ever so try to bare with me. Im finding that this can be a way to help myself and possibly others that are seeking insight about life and all that comes with it. Im not a good writer or think my words are more important than others. This is for myself and anyone else who wants to read it. I hope you guys enjoy.

It has taken me 22 years to realize how much life and health are taken for granted. We were always told that "It will never happen to me and just to keep moving forward with my good life." Being in Dayton, OH on my winter break has really gotten the best of me. It seems in this two week break that I have been surrounded by nothing but tragedies and lifes unanswered questions. Momma always told me life wasn't fair as she denied my request at the toy store after I would throw my daily temper tantrum. I have come to realize that absolutely nothing in life is fair and most of the time we must bite the bullet to achieve whatever it is we desire. Being spoiled with a good life will only set you back in tough times. If you are one who has received most of everything you have always wanted, tough times will only seem harder than they should be. It is a common for parents who did not have much as a child to spoil their kids and give them whatever they want and think, that in turn, will make their child feel happy. I find this to be damaging in the long run. Instead parents should strive to make their child understand that bad things can happen to anyone at any given time and to be thankful to be alive and to be in good health. It is important to take some time out of everyday and be thankful for what we have and understand that there are people all over the world that would trade spots with us any day. We will all face a knock at the door from some sort of evil at some point in our lives, and its important to have support and know how to fight answering this hellacious knock. Friends and family can get you through absolutely anything and everything. It is about digging deep inside and finding the strength and building a team within your friends and family to give you positive thoughts and energy that will get you through the "un-fair" times. Stay strong and keep fighting through your sorrows for you will get a second chance.